the ability of the people will always succeed, where the ability can not be generally said to be the ability to work, the ability to work is important, but people can not always work, success is mainly based on social skills.
2, let you have a strong self-control
self-control, is to overcome the desire, not because of a little pressure on the heart, have a bit of the heart of the matter is the big temper.
you are a step up, don’t say "no", because "no" may cause you to shake, give up your goal, which come to naught.
3, put the emotion into the rational box